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Monday 21 May 2012

...thank you


Rita McCarthy Richardson RIP

I just want to thank everyone for their kind wishes, hugs, cards, prayers and good vibes, all were hugely appreciated and even if I did end up sitting at the computer opening the second box of Kleenex, I always think it's a good thing to let it all out and not bottle your feelings up inside.

My wee mum has gone to be with my dad, she has no more pain, and for that I am grateful. She was a unique and wonderful lady. We were the luckiest children. She was beautiful inside and out, and if I can take anything positive out of what has happened it will be that my mum and dad would have wanted us to go forward in peace and happiness.

Neither of my folks were the sort of people to dwell on their misfortune and so I am looking forward to keeping busy and getting back into things again, that's not to say I won't have the odd wobble and subject you all to lengthy waffles of the 'when I was wee...' variety, but there are interesting things to be told. My mother was incredibly talented, she was an accomplished painter among other things and so I expect that from time to time you might come across her handiwork on this blog.

Thank you for stopping by.


46 comments:

  1. Claire -

    Your mum was a stunner - inside and out. Thank you for sharing your insights and both your parents' outlook.

    I look forward to see her handiwork. I think I have seen some of it reflected in you with your wonderful artistic perspective.

    Peace be with you,
    Sis

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  2. Claire, I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mum is a beautiful woman, and I'm sure she was incredible (especially to have raised a wonderful daughter like you!). xoxo

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  3. Clarie, I'm so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful post in her memory. I hope that you will find comfort in your fond memories. Sending hugs from across the Atlantic! Take care of yourself...
    XX
    Regan

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  4. You certainly resemble your mother. I can see her in you and she certainly passed on the creative gene. Hugs and prayers continue to be sent your way.

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  5. So sorry! May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

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  6. Oh my goodness, I think you are the image of your Mum. She was a very beautiful woman. Know that we are all thinking of you. May she rest in peace now, pain free.


    Ali B

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  7. Claire -

    If you are a testament to who your Mum was, she was no doubt, an extraordinary, amazing woman. Still keeping you close in prayer. Lots of Love -- ♥♥♥

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  8. What a lovely picture! I have to agree with everyone...you are a beautiful resemblance of your mum, Claire. Again, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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  9. So sorry to read your mum passed away but how wonderful to be left with good memories. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
    Eveline.

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  10. Please accept my sincere sympathies Claire. Our Mother's love us, guide us and shape us. The world is a better place for them...my heart goes out to you during this painful time. God bless you and your loved ones.

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  11. Sending you big giant hugs my friend. Your mum sounds like she was a wonderful person and her picture is gorgeous, I can see you take after her.

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  12. You look so much like her. Glad to hear that you are doing well, and continuing to heal and grieve. Your mother sounds amazing. continuing to pray for you!

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  13. Beautiful picture, so sorry for your loss! RIP

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  14. Look at that lovely face; clearly she is living on in you! We would adore hearing "when I was wee" tales of your mum, and it would be a real treat to see some of her paintings! It is such a comfort to know that she and your dad are reunited in Christ. Christ promised that those who mourn shall be comforted, so do let it all out and cry whenever you need to. We would all hug you and pass the tissues if only we were close enough. God bless you and your family.

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  15. so sorry for your loss, Claire...I lost my mom 2 years ago so I know that feeling...you are close to my heart and in my prayers :)

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  16. Claire - what a lovely tribute to your Mum. She was a beautiful lady, and you've look much like her. Keeping you in my thoughts. Hugs, Deborah xx

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  17. I am sorry to hear of your loss, your mother was really beautiful.

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  18. So sorry to hear about your mum. You've said some lovely words there and you are lucky that her creativeness lives on in you! You also look just like her! That's a beautiful photo.
    Take care

    Hugs
    Sheena.

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  19. What a wonderful tribute to your Mum Claire! I see you are as beautiful as she! Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers :)

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  20. ah Claire :( im so so sorry to hear about your Mum , I dont have words Claire only that take comfort she is in heaven with your dad and someday you will see them again.
    I lost my Dad almost 3 years ago and im still grieving :(
    Please take care
    Love Marlou xxx

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  21. ps My Mum's maiden name was McCarthy (she is from Co Limerick)
    xxx

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  22. She was indeed very beautiful ... take care

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  23. Yes, Claire, it's all been said before in that your Mother was a beauty and lovely to read that she was beautiful inside and out. You are so like her both to look at and indeed inside as well.
    Take care in the days ahead, cry if you want to.....also looking forward to see her art.

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  24. That is a beautiful picture, Claire! With your avatar parallel to the photo, it shows just how much you look alike! Sending lots of hugs your way :)

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  25. A beautiful photo and a wonderful tribute to your Mum. The resemblance between you both is very noticeable. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I look forward to hearing more about your Mum and seeing her work too. Hugs x

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  26. What a wonderful tribute to your mother.
    She was beautiful and she has left behind a legacy in you. You are creative and beautiful, also.

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  27. What a beautiful photo of your Mum, and indeed you do look a lot like her. I'd love to hear some of your childhood tales and see some of your Mum's artwork too. I'm sure she was very proud of you following in her artistic footsteps! Sending you a big hug,

    Lynn Wild.

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  28. What a beautiful woman Claire - she will stay alive in your hearts with all the wonderful memories of her!

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  29. That's a wonderful tribute. My love to you and your family.

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  30. What a beautiful post, Claire. I can tell that you certainly had an amazing mom and all my thoughts are with you.

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  31. Claire your mother was beautiful...
    and you very much take after her...
    both inside and out...
    because how could she have raised such an incredible gem without being one herself?
    I know the loss is hard...and you are in my thoughts and prayers...
    please take care!
    And by the way...
    I'm a Richardson too!
    Carried that name for almost 22 years before I married my good 'ole Irish Yankee and took the name Lynch...
    but it's Richardson that flows through these veins!

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  32. Oh, she is so beautiful! You look so much like her, from what I see in your own photo. Take care, friend, I am thinking of you!

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  33. Oh Claire, I'm so sorry for your loss! Your Mom was just beautiful - now I know where you got your good looks! I pray that you many wonderful memories of her will bring you comfort.
    Hugs!

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  34. Claire your Mum was a stunner! Sending you hugs and friendship
    Anne
    xxx

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  35. What a stunning picture of your mum and yes like everyone else I too see a lot of her in you. Memories of loved ones are things that keep us going and yes you can have sad days as well as happy ones. Remembering, reflecting and sharing really does help. It would be lovely to hear more about your mum and her work.
    Thinking of you in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs Rizwana .xx

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  36. Claire, Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman - you are her legacy! You are a reflection of all the beauty in her. I am so sorry for your loss - although I know she will live forever in you.

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  37. I'm so sorry to hear of your recent loss. Please know I'm thinking of you and you and your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

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  38. My heart goes out to you and your family Claire...feel so sorry that she had to go through so much pain.
    Hoped when she came home she was feeling better......
    Claire I can see your mother in you ..both gorgeous persons I know how sweet you are and gorgeous inside too.
    Sending big hugs your way!
    Love Holly.

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  39. it'll be a wonderful way to remember your mum and pay homage to how you came to be the way you are :) what a gorgeous picture... your mum's so photogenic and beautiful! still thinking of you and your family ...

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  40. God bless you sweetheart, I'm sure mum and dad are both watching over all of you.. and it's nice that they are together and that there is no more pain. Take heart we're all sending you strength and courage and much love, God bless you
    Hugs
    Angie xx

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  41. Thank you for sharing with us about your precious Mom! Hugs!

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  42. Claire - thanks for sharing the picture of your lovely mum. It sounds as though you clearly have inherited her creative gene along with all those wonderful memories. It's good to have you back and remember wobbly moments are totally allowed - we're all here for you come rain or shine (isn't that what friends are for :-)Hugs

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  43. I am so sorry for your loss Claire.

    Thank you for sharing your mums beautiful picture and from reading your post I see you and your mum had a very special bond! <3

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  44. Claire you Mum was very pretty... so very sorry you have lost someone so important to you... I am sure you will share many of your mums inspirations and talents. Praying your heart heals quickly!! HUGS!

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  45. What a beautiful picture of your Mum! She is gorgeous! The pain of losing a mother is always there, but remember the loving memories and know you are shaped into the person of who you are largely because of her and that will always be with you.

    Loving thoughts to you!

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  46. So sorry. Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family. Dealing with a death here too in the past week - I'm weepy and I haven't seen this person for years! Your mother was beautiful, and has clearly passed that on to you - you look so similar. Tears and sorrow mean you loved them, and as such, are a good thing to have.

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